Fresh concerns are being raised over the growing social and emotional pressures confronting the male-child in Nigeria, with a warning that deeply rooted societal expectations are forcing many boys into silence from an early age.
A public discuss in Calabar, the Cross River State capital on Friday notes that the culture which demands toughness, emotional restraint and early responsibility on boys, leav many boxed-in, unsupported and ill-prepared to cope with life’s challenges, with far-reaching consequences for their mental health.
Across families, communities and school environments, boys are often taught to suppress emotions, endure hardship quietly and “man up,” even when overwhelmed.
Experts warn that this pattern of silence is unhealthy and dangerous to both emotional, mental and social development of the male-child.
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Health reports have shown that, unresolved early emotional struggles especially among the boys, can later manifest as anger, depression, substance abuse, violence or withdrawal, affecting not just the individual but society at large.
The solution lies in changing the narrative by encouraging boys and men to speak up, ask for help and understand that vulnerability is not weakness, but a vital part of personal growth.
Speakers at the Calabar Forum have also called for deliberate efforts to catch the boys young – through mentorships, structured conversations, conferences and strong male-support networks that allow them to express themselves freely and learn positive coping skills.
Stakeholders insist that empowering the male-child to find his voice, is critical, not only to his wellbeing, but to building healthier families and a more stable society.
